Wednesday Weirdness: Legally Adopting Ex-Husband

By on 1-05-2011 in Adult Adoption, Wednesday Weirdness

Wednesday Weirdness: Legally Adopting Ex-Husband
Welcome to Wednesday Weirdness, a recurring theme where we post something truly weird and wacky in adoption or child welfare.
Our first installment came from this article, The Gore war [Delaware Online 1/2/11 by Cris Barrish]
A woman legally adopted her ex-husband in order to secure more of her late father’s fortune for her family. The possibilities here are endless and slightly creepy. Sadly, this shows another facet of greed that has invaded the realm of adoption.

From the article: “Susan W. Gore, one of Wilbert’s five children, triggered a five-year Delaware Chancery Court battle by adopting her ex-husband. The event that adoption experts call incredibly rare and perhaps unprecedented — a man becoming his former wife’s son — occurred in 2003 in Wyoming, where the Gore family has roots. Susan Gore went through with the adoption so that each of her three natural children could reap tens of millions of dollars more from a family trust worth hundreds of millions. But she did it without informing her mother, Genevieve W. Gore, Wilbert’s widow and overseer of the trust, or other relatives outside Susan Gore’s immediate branch of the family. Not until after Genevieve died in 2005 — more than 18 months after the adoption — did Susan file court papers seeking to have her “adopted child” declared a trust beneficiary. Her petition unleashed a tsunami of protest from relatives incensed over the attempt to change the distribution of the trust. Documents in the case suggest Susan Gore wanted her grown children — Jan P., Joel and Nathan Otto — to get a bigger trust share because she had spent too much of her own inheritance, which her father expected her to pass on to them
A quick look at adoption.org shows the following for information on adult adoptions: http://www.adopting.org/adoptions/adopting-an-adult-state-laws.html
Although I am completely in favor of adult adoption in many cases, two such examples being a means to care for a disabled adult or adopting a child who has aged out of foster care, this just leaves the door open for all kinds of wackiness
Hmmm, I could divorce my husband, adopt him and he could call me Mom. Complete with a new birth certificate that lists me as his biological mother. The bright spot for him would be that he wouldn’t have to change his name. The kids could call him bro
Readers, what’s the wackiest scenario YOU can think of?

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