FacePalm Friday:Arkansas DHS

By on 5-29-2015 in Arkansas, FacePalm Friday

FacePalm Friday:Arkansas DHS

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Welcome to this week’s edition of FacePalm Friday.

This is where your hosts will list their top picks for this week’s FacePalm moment—something they learned or read about this week that caused the FacePalm to happen (you know, the expression of embarrassment, frustration, disbelief, shock, disgust or mixed humor as depicted in our Rally FacePalm smiley).

We invite you to add your FacePalm of the week to our comments. Go ahead and add a link, tell a personal story, or share something that triggered the FacePalm on the subject of child welfare or adoption.

Your Host’s Selections:

(1)Josh Duggar Speaks at Christian Children’s Home of Ohio Hope Gala in 2009

http://www.inquisitr.com/2123126/josh-duggar-was-speaker-at-ccho-hope-gala-for-christian-foster-care-spoke-of-abuse-to-children/

“Josh Duggar visited the Christian Children’s Home of Ohio in 2009. He said that visiting the children’s home was an eye-opening experience for him that made him realize what he was privileged to that the foster children were not.”

“As the guest speaker, Duggar stressed the importance of investing in working on behalf of abused, neglected, and suffering children. Josh Duggar quoted scripture while referencing his father and reality TV co-star, saying that Jim Bob Duggar spent his house savings on an unsuccessful political campaign. Josh pointed out that while the house savings was gone, the attention from his father’s campaign was ultimately responsible for the financial boost from the reality show. Josh Duggar told the crowd at the Christian Children’s Home of Ohio’s gala that in Romans 8:28, God says, “All things work together for good,” but clarified that the poor children the charity is said to help know well that not all things are good, according to The Daily Record, and Duggar specified the emphasis of the word “together” from the scripture passage. Josh then told the charity’s guests that “there is hope when we are willing to stand up and be bold and be courageous.”[Except if you  molested  your sisters.Smiley]

Those words would soon follow him, because not long after his evening as guest speaker at the Christian Children’s Home of Ohio’s gala, Josh was publicly accused of molesting minor girls, including some of his sisters when he was 14″

“Before the news of the molestation from his youth came out, Josh Duggar told the crowd at the Christian Children’s Home of Ohio’s Hope Gala that evil done to children is one of its worst forms.”[Except if you molested your sisters Bootprint]

“While some are calling Josh hypocritical, many others are disturbed that the Duggar parents allegedly consider manual labor and prayer appropriate treatment for inappropriate sexual activity involving minors. The Inquisitr reported on the treatment facility Josh Duggar attended. According to People, Josh’s so-called therapy at Basic Life Principles Training Center in Little Rock, Arkansas, has been extensively criticized.”

Watch Funny or diehttp://www.funnyordie.com/videos/82a2f2d61f/the-duggars-respond

(2) Representative Justin Harris

Featured in our How Could You? column here.

 http://www.rawstory.com/2015/05/not-just-the-duggars-arkansas-dhs-keeps-giving-christian-conservatives-a-pass-on-child-abuse/

“A sexual molestation case involving Josh Duggar, the reality TV star and former high-ranking employee of the anti-LGBT Family Research Council, has dominated national news for more than a week as continuing revelations suggest the teen and his family may have received preferential treatment from authorities.”

“As the Arkansas Times reported, Harris and his wife, Marsha Harris, have not faced any consequences since news broke in March that they gave away two adopted daughters to a man who later sexually assaulted one of the girls – although state legislators changed a state law to prevent others from doing the same thing.

The lawmaker continues to serve in the statehouse, where no fellow Republicans have called for his resignation or censure, and the couple still own and operate the Growing God’s Kingdom preschool – which receives 90 percent of its funding through the state and federal government.”

“The Harrises took in three girls in 2011 through the Department of Human Services, despite concerns by case workers and therapists that the couple was ill-equipped to care for the girls – who had suffered abuse before they were placed in foster care.

But the girls’ previous foster parents said Harris used his political influence to pressure Cecile Blucker, the director of the DHS Division of Children and Family Services, to recommend their planned adoption to go forward.

The couple returned one of the girls to DHS within months due to behavioral problems, and they claim they were unable to return the other two girls in early 2013 without risking child abandonment charges.

The Harrises believed the girls were possessed by demons and had an exorcism performed, said a babysitter and others who knew them – but the lawmaker and his wife deny that.

They eventually “rehomed” the girls, ages 5 and 3, in October 2013 to a friend and preschool employee of theirs – Eric Francis – who is now serving a 40-year prison term for abusing one of the Harris’ adopted daughters and two other children. 

The couple left their adopted daughters with Francis even after firing him over poor work attendance in January 2014 — when court documents show he admitted to raping the girl while his wife was out of state.

Current and former employees at Growing God’s Kingdom said they remain concerned about possible tax violations, child mistreatment, improper use of foster children in campaign ads, and the lawmaker’s influence over DHS.

The agency is responsible for administering federal funds for preschool breakfast and lunch programs, which some employees said the Harrises abused by falsifying sign-in forms for absent children.”

Duggar case

“Jim Bob Duggar — a former Republican state lawmaker, failed U.S. Senate candidate, and close friend of former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee – said last week that he had taken his then-teenage son in 2003 to meet with a state trooper acquaintance who did not report the abuse, which had happened about a year earlier.”

“The police report was published last week as part of a Freedom of Information Act request – although Judge Stacy Zimmerman, who also has ties to Huckabee, quickly ordered the original report to be destroyed and GOP state Rep. Bart Hester wants state police to investigate the legally mandated release of the document.

Springdale police referred Duggar’s case in 2006 to the Families in Need of Services, which monitors criminal cases against juveniles, and that agency then notified the Arkansas Department of Human Services.

It’s not clear what action – if any – was taken by DHS against Duggar at that time because he was a juvenile.

But nine months later, Duggar sued DHS and a trial was held Aug. 6, 2007, after TLC began working with the family for the reality show that would begin broadcasting the following year as “17 Kids and Counting.””

“His parents initially claimed the teen received counseling, which DHS can mandate for abusers and victims, but he instead went to work for several months with a family friend who remodeled buildings in the Little Rock area.”

4 Comments

  1. Adopters who within mere WEEKS of getting the new kid home are FUNDRAISING because they’ CANNOT afford the $1000 of medical care their new child needs:

    http://godetchedyourname.blogspot.com/2015/06/medical-procedure.html

    • Actually, they’ve had Titus for a year and a half– the November 2014 arrival was apparently a biological child (or a domestic newborn adoption; I didn’t read closely enough to find out).

      While it’s nice that they don’t violate Titus’s medical confidentiality by explaining what he needs the surgery for, I’d like to know why they can’t pay for this themselves. If he “needs” this surgery, why won’t their insurance pay for it? Or if this is their deductible– which seems possible from the amount– why can’t they go ahead and approve the surgery, then make payments on the balance like ordinary mortals? If it IS truly medically urgent, you’d think that’s what they’d do. And if the procedure can wait on fundraising, why can’t they cut luxuries out of their budget and save up the needed money that way?

      IMO, once they’ve broken the taboo against panhandling to fund the adoption in the first place, APs tend to look on crowdfunded money as an entitlement to reward them for their saintliness in “rescuing” a child. They view themselves as the board of a charitable foundation, rather than parents with an obligation to provide for that child, just the same as they do their biokids.

  2. Sara Baerbock, Reece’s Rainbow pap extraordinaire, has put together a 50 ways to help orphans orphans list… that doesn’t actually involve helping orphans!

    http://www.postzero.com/adoption_journey/2015/06/07/50-ways-you-can-help/

    As far as Sara’s concerned providing free maid/Gardner/family photographer services to the PAP, chauffeuring the PAP to/from the airport, offering free interior decorator services to the PAP’s, and given by them your hard-earned cash constitutes heling orphans!!

    Barf!!

    50 ways you can help orphans
    June 7, 2015 6:54 pm Published by Matt Leave a comment Categorised in: Fundraising and Support
    question-markYou don’t necessarily need to adopt to make an impact. Some of the biggest encouragements for us have involved others sharing our story. Donations, even smaller ones, also helped us realize that we weren’t alone in this. Adoption can sometimes feel pretty lonely.

    We’ve also talked a lot about our adoption journey, fundraising goals, and process involved. Many have offered their support and we couldn’t have done it without you. That’s the honest truth. It really is a team effort. So when Eloise comes home, realize that you helped make it possible! And also (of course) by the grace of God.

    So here is a list I compiled of ways you can help an adoptive family. Many of these came as suggestions from other families who have also adopted.

    Pray
    Share a waiting child’s profile
    Host fundraisers or help a family fundraise
    Donate items for fundraiser giveaways
    Follow a family’s adoption journey
    Offer your encouragement (it can sometimes be lonely!)
    Offer childcare while the family travels
    Offer to babysit at any stage of the process
    Cook or deliver food
    Look after pets while the family travels
    Take over any lawn work and/or keep an eye on their house while away
    Help pay the family’s bills (either with your money or theirs) if they’re in another country for an international adoption
    Help decorate the new child’s room
    Donate toys/games for the new child or as a donation to the orphanage
    Purchase language learning courses or aids for either the child or family to help learn the child’s language
    Help throw an open house once the family comes home (give them time to settle and adjust first though)
    Meet them at the airport when they return home
    Offer to photograph their arrival with their new child
    Offer transportation to/from the airport if needed
    Help with a yard sale and/or donate items for one
    Spread the word about orphans
    Host a child from another country for the summer
    Offer to hold a bake sale with proceeds benefiting the adoption
    Help hold a car wash
    Hold a silent auction/giveaway for an adoptive family
    Offer to coordinate a spaghetti dinner or community breakfast with proceeds going to a family. Lots of volunteer work can be tough to coordinate when you’re already busy with an adoption.
    Be a good listener and sympathize if someone’s day didn’t go well. There can be a lot of surprises. Everything from paperwork issues to funding and sometimes just plain exhaustion.
    Offer notary services free of charge
    Lend office equipment for copying, faxing, etc.
    Help with a family’s photo book to bring overseas to show the new child
    Photograph the family. That can be hard when the entire family is in the picture!
    Volunteer in church ministry if the new children have special needs that need accommodation
    Write a reference letter for the family. There can be many. We only needed them for the home study, but they can be for dossier and grants too!
    Be excited for them! Show your support. Cheer the family on.
    Share about Reece’s Rainbow
    Host a Buddy Walk
    Drop off a batch of cookies with a kind note once the family is home again
    Donate to an organization like Love Without Boundaries
    Create a website for the family
    Help to distribute business (info) cards
    Assemble bunk beds or other furniture for the new child(ren)
    Donate vacation days if a member of the adoptive family works with you and your employer allows it
    Sponsor a dedicated nanny for an orphan in another country. I’ll post a link if I can find it.
    Help translate into the child’s native language. This can be useful for photo books and letters.
    Offer to help clean the family’s house. This can be HUGE.
    Share and/or comment on the family’s blog page. It’s great to know someone is listening and following along.
    Offer to purchase/acquire travel items on the family’s travel list
    Connect with the community on the family’s behalf to help fundraise and support
    Contact local news/media outlets to help share the adoptive family’s story
    Watch this video for 94 more ways!
    We’re truly thankful for the many ways you’ve helped us in our adoption and are still helping our family as we now eye a travel date.

    • It’s amazing how many PAPs are convinced that “helping orphans” equates to “removing them from their country, culture, and native language”.

      And it’s an out-of-birth-order placement, too. But not to worry– the profile says that the girl LOVES helping take care of younger children, especially the infants and toddlers.

      Hmm, it couldn’t that this is why the PAPs, who have five existing kids from birth to age eleven, want to adopt this particular child? I suppose it is cheaper than hiring a nanny, especially since kind-hearted donors are going to underwrite the entire costs. All this and a bunch of gifties and emotional sugar for the PAPs for their “rescuing” an “orphan”.

      And we KNOW how well setting children to raise children worked out for the Duggars, don’t we?

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